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prematurely, as soon as they turned fifteen and sixteen, for they felt
emotionally abandoned by their father. As regards the financial aspect, there
was a profound change in their lifestyle and their possibilities to continue
attending school, which were reduced. Ricardo and his wife Yaqueline’s
children, who remained within the family group, have suffered their share of
all the harassment. They have lived for years trying to hide and escaping,
something which generates instability and insecurity.
Ricardo Gutiérrez-Soler’s teenage daughters have not lived the normal life of
a girl because as a consequence of fear they are forced to stay at home.
Ricardo did not have an explanation for his children because he did not even
have one for himself. The children resented the evasive answers from their
father. Owing to this, they started to develop their own explanations, which
led them to distrust their father. When they learned what was really
happenning, it was as if they had managed to put all the pieces of their lives’
puzzle together. Ricardo’s children also had symptoms consistent with the
events they underwent, the aftermath of which depends to a large extent on
the assistance they may receive in the future. These children wish to resume
studies as their great life project. The children of Wilson and Ricardo have
been affected in their transition between adolescence and adulthood. Carlos,
one of them, shows signs of depression and has a negative sense of himself,
which makes it necessary for him to use professional help. Forbidden to go
out with other girls, Ricardo’s daughters feel they do not have a normal life.
Leydi does not live with his father, but she has not been able to continue her
studies, so she feels affected because her life project is not heading in the
direction she wishes.
Yaqueline stood by Ricardo’s side, suffering as much as him, like and echo of
what he was going through. Presently, Yaqueline is deeply concerned about
the fact that her daughter Paula Camila, who is four years old, does not
speak yet and urgently needs to start treatment. Yaqueline feels hopeless
because this kind of treatment is expensive, and the longer it is put off the
worse the condition might be getting. Early treatment can prevent
pathological developments.
The fact that Wilson and Ricardo Gutiérrez have not wanted to disclose the
events to their next of kin follows a pattern similar to that of other survivors
of torture. Torture victims “feel ashamed to share it with everybody else […]
this is a pattern undoubtedly found in 95% of torture survivors.” The fact of
having been rapes also determined him to refuse to talk about the events,
since “for a man, a sexual assault like that suffered by Wilson represents an
attack to his dignity, to his masculinity.” Mr. Wilson Gutiérrez “lost his ability
to fully enjoy his sex life, which for a man of his age is quite regrettable.”
The apologies by the State is “a way to restore the social status they used to
have and they want to have; it is a way to reinstate the parent’s authority
over their children.” As for the use of the events of the instant case “as an
example in the professional training given to forensic physicians, to police
investigators and to court officials,” the victim has always expressed his
desire to help prevent other people from going through the same thing as he
did, for which reason it has an enormous emotional and moral value, and
could be a psychologically restorative one as well. Action aimed at restoring
the “family social, psychological and emotional functional levels they used to
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